sorry, I didn't look at your profile before I listed a bunch of typically feminine perfumes. Nomade is fairly unisex, but the other 3 are not. If you're interested in retro 90's stuff at all, Thierry Mugler made a series of Angel and A*Men perfumes that all feature patchouli in the base. The original ones are pretty strong and honestly divisive, but A*Men has a bunch of flankers that seem very popular among men in the reddits I read. A lot of people consider some of the Angel varients to be unisex as well.