for BPAL, this site has great reviews of perfumes you might be considering, and there's also an entire forum for recommendations. I think you get faster search results if you make an account and login, but you can read all that stuff without doing it.
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https://www.bpal.org/
https://www.bpal.org/topic/1838-bpal-patchouli-theres-nothing-else-like-it/